Establish your goals:
- Why are you participating in this challenge? To be honest, it is because we earn ok money and are falling into the pattern of earning more and spending more, but on wasteful things, money just disappears and it shouldn’t be. I would like to pay down the mortgage, grow my savings, increase pension payments and look to invest! We should have more money than we do at the end of the month. We also use credit cards- mostly due to going on two expensive holidays, Florida in Sept was with my family, then next year we are going to New York for a wedding, but turning it into a big holiday. We have our car on a personal loan, need to work out how much longer that is for- interest is calculated at the start of the loan so repayments won’t reduce the amount payable, and the credit card is 0%, we are very good at tarting cards and have been doing this for a few years now. I would love to be credit card and personal loan free.
- What do you hope to achieve? I guess I would like to achieve a feeling of freedom and also the security that comes with less debt, this includes on the mortgage as well. I would love to be able to save more money, invest money and see money do more for me, rather than helping to line the banks pockets!
- What are your longterm goals? I struggle with this if I am honest, I kind of think about the future but it is often vague and blurry, Hubby doesn’t have job security like I do as a nurse- ie I have lots more job oppertunities should this job change, I have toyed with the idea of looking to go towards management within my current role and have discussed this with my manager who has said she would work with me towards this. But mostly, my long term goals would be more vague, like, to be mortgage free at some time, to have good savings, investments, to have choices around when I retire, to be able to travel more- possibly a van of somekind to transform, to be stable in my relationship with Hubby, for the dogs to live forever….To have a job I can tolerate, to work because we can do things with the money, rather than because we have to work to pay off x, y and z. To choose a lower paying job if I desire, for Hubby to feel he has choices around his work.
- Where do you want to be in 10years? At the grand age of 42, I would like to be looking at a smaller mortgage, either in this home, or in a lovely little house in a woodland somewhere! For Hubby to be less stressed and feeling more like himself, for me to have experimented with management- whether I enjoy it or not, the oppertunity would be good! Or to consider trying to specialise, I would like to do more around Dementia, perhaps I could specialise more in this area? Oops, still not got clear ideas…Perhaps what this signifies, is that in 10years I want to be happy in work? Mad idea I know! I want to have travelled and explored different places, and have many more places to adventure. On a very personal level, I would like to be in a lot better physical health and have a much better relationship with my body!
- What about your current lifestyle might prevent those goals from coming to fruition and what can you do about it? Hmm, habits are very hard to break and I do struggle in the self belief department, so this is probably my biggest barrier, getting my brain on board! I think having Hubby do this challenge alongside me will definately help, its good to have someone on the same journey to offer mutual support. I struggle with motivation and can struggle to think long term, I guess this is something that being aware of will help me to try and work on this. Plus, this challenge is meant to be hard, so that can be a massive downer! It would be easier to carry on how things were, day to day we do well, we have a lovely home, we can make payments, the debt is manageable etc. But I must remember my desire to want more from life, rather than things!
Step 2 is on its way!